I now have a reconciled relationship with my family and the privilege of helping others know that change is possible.

Seeing and knowing other men as human beings instead of sexualizing them has been a life-changing transformation.  

My attraction to women completely disappeared. I love the way that I look; I enjoy being a woman and can now express that healthfully.

[They] stressed what I should not do sexually rather than who I was...

Community and accountability were key in my journey. I began to understand the truth of who I truly am. 

I started seeing a Christian counselor, attended conferences and found some books. These were all very instrumental in bringing about change and healing in my life.

I received a lot of encouragement from a documentary that tells stories of individuals who worked through unwanted same-sex attraction.

I watched personal testimonies on YouTube of many other ex-gays who talked about their journey.  If they had found genuine transformation, then I could too.

I started to go to different conferences. Books and tapes were also pivotal for me, and counseling played a crucial part. I was able to find solid, legitimate support that helped me determine my sexuality in a way that lined up with my faith and desires.

I began seeing a licensed therapist who helped me recognize my own emotional wounds and needs. My life now is infinitely more peaceful and healthier in every way.

Seminars helped put words and understanding to what I was experiencing. I no longer experience same-sex desires and have walked over 25 years in my choice.

“The things that turned me on in men symbolized what I believed were absent in me.”

God healed my mind and my heart, and then my behavior and sexual attractions changed.

Six years after leaving the gay lifestyle, I met my wife, Amanda. I love being a husband and "Daddy" to our three children.

I'm indebted to the programs and counselors that helped me get my life back.

I realized I was never going to get the identity or affirmation from any of the men I was with. I never felt alone.

It's not about religion telling me what to do; it's something that's coming from the inside out.

I joined a group of married men who also struggled with homosexuality, and we all encouraged each other and shared our stories. Today I’m happy and peaceful, a better husband and father.